Say No To Abusive Relationships...Run if You Have To.. Children Or No Children.. :(

This is a short blog inspired by my 25 year old friend …who don’t understand the concept of a relationship….. It is far better to be a single mom than to be stuck in an abusive relationship where you, the man, and the kids are miserable. Men are not the be all, end all. Do not try to keep a man with a child, do not stay just because of the kids. Too many times we get caught up in a man who is not right for us. Sometimes there is less shame in being a single mom than a single mom “clingon”... many people may disagagree…but it’s my opinion …I’m just saying…

This one is for the ladies ... Not the men. Tired of women blaming men. We have brains and should use our upstairs as much if not better than downstairs. There are great men out there... Then again, it's up to the woman to recognise a great man...

I'll be the first to say THERE ARE GREAT MEN... We just need to appreciate them when we find them…..trust me, i try to keep it real. It's just that some women hate reality. Reality bites... not everyone is lucky in love and life, but i say make your own luck. Many women have done amazing things as single moms. We need to realise, that yes it is tough, but no mom has ever died from being a single mom.... I have cousins and friends who is the product of a single mom and i say - what doesn't KILL YOU, WILL MAKE YOU STRONGER!!!!!!!!

            Many of these young girls rush into meaningless relationships thinkin life is a disney movie and good sex can solve all their problems.....

True... many of them only think about the sex! I'm all for good sex... but with good sex should come GREAT brain cells. Do not wait for a man to protect you, protect yourself. If you don’t want kids... put the womb on lock down. If you get on...i hate seeing people just making children just because they think its the answer to a good relationship……my messages are based on thoughts which i am having ... not meant for any woman who thinks that i am trying to put her down.. i speak MY TRUTH as i see it...

But it's really nice to be able to tell the WOMEN from the Girls..... Reality bites and women acknowledge the reality and do not live with tinted windows... i would for sure rather be a single mom than kill my kids, stress myself.. or stay with a man who abuse me daily and who doesn't want me, or treats me like garbage. I'M BLESSED to have a good man - sorry, it's not luck - because i made my own LIFE. Could have choosen to be a fool in love rather than a woman who's loved... he loves me, i love him... You know who you are!!!!